True! – Difficult – very, very difficult for me to explain a true
friendship and also wouldn’t claim to be a perfect person to understand
friendship but i’ve learned and gained some knowledge about it, moreover i’ve some
countable friends but they have showed me the real meaning of that. Even i
questioned this to some of my friends and they found it tedious question to
answer. So i’m throwing my feelings in
my less than perfect words.
A
lot of people go through this life without friends, some with few friends. It
seems that they have very less or none to share their own feelings or their
good times or bad. There is no one with
whom to bounce the idea around, or to talk about something knee deep feelings. And when you won’t have anyone to share your
feelings believe me you are at the mercy of life, standing alone.
And
many are lucky who have a multitude of friends. They are lucky because wherever
they go, people know them and they like to be around them. They know with whom
they should share the feelings of good times as well bad. Life is full of
entertaining and invigorating relationships because it is full of friends and
i’m agreeing with this point.
I
know you must be thinking why the heck i’m explaining this here to you or
kicking you to read but actually as soon as i felt that friends and friendship
is blessing of god, i wanted to write something about my friend circle. I have
a few deep and loyal friends than the many superficial ones. My friends cheer
me up in my knee deep sorrow or when i’m depressed. I often just want them
around to have some fun, act silly and have some good times with them, so that
i can collect some memorable moments with my friends. In how many ways they have enriched my life and made me feel loved, accepted, respected and cared for me? Probably, too
many if will prepare the list and the interesting thing is, it grows daily.
Some of the thing i’ve learned from them is listed below,
hope you find it correct and useful:-
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Encourage your friend so that they can be able to challenge their own
reasonable limits and achieve something big.
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One sure way to destroy your own friendship is by not to forgive
them for their mistakes. Be willing to forgive them.
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One thing i feel more important is your own words – “i’ll be there
always for you”. Just let them know by
your action.
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Don’t ever try to control your friends – just let them feel the
freedom and importance of your friendship.
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Just learn to accept as they are and accept the personality changes in
them in various situations.
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You should learn to keep the secrets of your friends. Frankly saying
- don’t be blabbermouth with your friendship.
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Don’t ever let misunderstanding or argument destroy your friendship.
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And last but not the least one, never be greedy minded. Don’t look for
what you can get out of your friendship.
Laconically would like to wrap up this story because i
don’t want you to get bored by this, though i know there’s lot thing to follow
and also to share. I would like you to
shoot something to your mind, is that you should be thankful to god and you
must be thankful for your beautiful life with crazy-good-friends around you.
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